Kama Sutra for Couples Who Have Been Dating for Over Three Years

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I am so confused by her actions. My ex at age 35 lived with his parents, for 4 years whilst with me.

If he takes you to the same place he and his ex were at in pics. Marriage is not a priority for me.

Didn't get him up the aisle within three years? Your marriage could well be doomed, says this relationship expert - I may never know the answer. I really hope all you girls realise that we all have a choice in what we accept from a guy.

My wife of 15 years seems to be against me in everything I do. I have been noticing that whenever we are with friends she puts me down as if she is joking but I am actually tired of it. This has been going on for several years but all along I overlooked it. Something happened that made me realize she really disliked me and wanted me out of her life. When I came around they both started laughing. I stood there like a fool wondering why I had become the subject of ridicule. I let that slide but I was very troubled. On our way home later I asked my wife what happened and she said, well you can hardly do anything right and everybody knows it. Something snapped in me and I stopped the car and asked her to repeat what she said. Njigirl, I am not asking how to fix my marriage, it is already dead. The humiliation is too much! I am asking you to educate folks on how to keep their marriage. Let them not sacrifice happiness for anything. I already made my mistake. I was busy closing deals in France one week and the next week I was in Hong Kong. I am away for as long as three months straight and when I get home I just sleep the entire time. I just neglected her but all the bills were paid on time and she had extra to spend on anything she wanted. I should have released her but I was blind. Please tell your readers to be there physically as well as emotionally. How brave you are to want others to learn from your own experiences, how very noble of you. I wonder why your wife would live in deceit and misery for three years and not explode. I am so confused by her actions. I am also confused that your friend and others within your circle knew this and did not say anything to you. How could these people live in so much pretense, deceit and fantasy and act as though nothing was wrong? You have been through so much and you are still gracious enough to feel something for your wife. She could have told you but she allowed herself to suffer guilt and allowed you to be humiliated. I am so sorry that you were treated in this way. Now let us address the crux of the matter. Oftentimes couples make the mistake of placing priorities on the job that they forget to balance the job and family. It looks like you forgot birthdays, anniversaries, and just those special days that bonded you together like the date you discovered that you were carrying your first child. Women care about these dates and these moments. Your wife may be lucky that she married such a hard workingman but there is a side of her that wished for your attention. Oh yes some women have become very creative that for every anniversary they purchase a nice gift and head to the post office to mail it to themselves. By this time the post office clerks already know her name. Do you know how lonely that could be? So you did all that for what? You were closing that deal in France one week and another in Hong Kong the next week. You have not been home for three months straight and when you finally get home you are exhausted that you sleep the entire time. By the time you begin to recover it is time to head back out. Of course you infuriated your wife and she felt like she was just a part of the furniture. One can say that she did what she had to do to survive emotionally. I am just surprised that she carried such an emotional burden for three years without crumbling. I am also not happy that she let your friends in on her little dark secret allowing them to feel pity for you. You are right in that you felt humiliated. As much as you want others to have the benefit of hindsight, I hope that you have also learnt your lesson and that when you are ready to get into a relationship, that you most certainly would do it differently. Good luck and thanks so much for sharing. Abdullahi Gana Mohammadu, has disclosed that the corps arrested 351 suspected vandals and economic saboteurs of critical infrastructure across the states. He explained that 62 suspects were convicted and 289 others under prosecution. He told the Permanent Secretary, Federal Ministry of Interior, Dr.

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So basically, we are already in a relationship…. Understand that this is not a contradiction. Like most other things in life, courtships have a sell-by date. You are an unpaid emotional employee for him. All the time we had been seeing each other he had acted like he really cared about me though saying he could see himself falling in love with me but that scared him. This sound familiar to anyone yet?